How do you treat  differences in your marriage?
We all are distinct. Because each individual is created  uniquely for 
unique purpose in life, no two people in the world can be the  same. 
There are always diversities among people. In the same manner, 
it is not  a big deal if you have big dissimilarities with your spouse. 
Even as a man and  a woman there are major differences you may 
encounter. However, the big deal  lies on not having them but on 
how you treat them.Read more

What marriage is primarily  about
When I hear complains of most of couples, they are usually caused by 
egoistic  thoughts. They expect much from their spouses and when they 
couldn’t find what  they think they should get, they start to complain and 
lose interest on their  marriage.  They define happiness by  having or 
possessing. But, happiness is the result of giving not getting.Read more

Do  you think you are a Good spouse?
It is common to hear the complains of wives on their  husbands and 
husbands on their wives saying that they did whatever they can to  
make their spouses happy, and unfortunately the response they get 
was not as  they expected it to be. They might think about themselves 
that they were good  spouses. 

I heard a story of some couple who had this kind of problem. The wife thinks her husband deserves an honest plus loving wife and eating good food. And she tries whatever she can to take care of him with nice and balanced diet. Besides, she never looked at any man around. Unluckily for her, her husband’s needs were entirely different from that. He values friendly talks and making love more than anything. Therefore, things became unpleasant. Read more

Your  attitude towards your marriage
Attitude always matters. How you see things has more  influence 
(positive or negative) on your life than the way things are by  themselves. 
If you see seemingly impossible tasks as possible, then they will  be possible 
for you. The creativities and technologies we see and use today are  the 
results of the attitudes of people who see the impossible as possible. 

As your marriage is one part of your life, your attitude towards it matters for the good or bad of it. How do you feel about your marriage? How do you think your marriage is going on? Read more

Before  you get married
Let me ask you some questions if you have a plan sooner or  later 
to get in to a marriage. Ask yourself the following questions. They will  
help you to see your preparedness and adjust your mindsets.Read more

Whose  idea is it?
“What?”  You asked me fast.
“Good  question.” I answered. Then I continued;
The  thing that many people try to arrange and run it by themselves as 
if it was  their idea and as if they can do it perfectly, but unfortunately 
they fail to  do it.Read more

Do you want to save your marriage? Here is something you can do
I wonder about the setup of this world. You get whatever you  
want through patience and endurance. If you want to reach at any 
success point  in your life, you have to try and try again and 
wait patiently to see good  results.This same theory applies 
for marriage too. Read more

Our expectations about marriage
I wonder about these two outlooks  of marriage; the outlook before it and 
the outlook after it. I usually  ask couples soon before and after they 
got married. Read more

Why  do you want to get married?
Why do you want to get married? Most  people get married for the wrong 
reasons. Some because they think they are too old to be single; others 
because of what they fantasize about marriage; some others 
(especially women)....  Read more

How to make your marriage successful - Foundational marriage principles
We hope for a happy, fulfilling and successful marriage  in our life. 
However,it doesn’t seem that we would like to pay the price it  takes. 
Here are some tips to make your marriage successful. Read more

A union called marriage
How would you choose your marriage partner if you don’t have one? 
The one who loves and respects you and you do the same thing as well. 
Yes, indeed. However, we are witnessing that many marriages 
are meant to be arranged that way, and becoming a disaster at the end. 
But, why is it so? Read more

Virtuous wife, blessed husband
Sitting on the terrace of a cafe, me and my friends were chatting and having fun until one of them told us this shocking story of a young couple. Read more

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Book Recommendations

The Marriage You've Always Wanted
Marriage is God’s answer for our 
deepest human need—companionship. 
And that, according to counselor and 
relationship expert Dr. Gary Chapman, 
is to have deep   and lasting union 
with another, and to truly become one. 
But how can you build   that 
oneness from the beginning?
By Gary Chapman

The Four Seasons of Marriage
This book provides an easy-to-grasp          
framework to help couples understand          
their marriage   and seven practical          
strategies for strengthening or improving          
their marriage relationship. A valuable          
resource for couples regardless of how        
long they've been married.  
By Dr. Gary Chapman